What do you look for in a man/woman?

Guys, I know what's on your mind, when you see this radiant girl, with captivating features. You make countless effort to capture her attention, hold her interest and a desire in her. You also want to know what is it in a man that she likes, so that you can be all that or more.

Girls, there are guys that just make you wanna swoon, melt you and seems to top the rank in your heart no matter what, even though he ignores and forgot to call you on special dates like your anniversary etc. You want to be the the lady that supports your man in whatever they do, cause there's a saying, "Behind every great man, there is a greater woman."

The topic of what interest the opposite gender have always pondered in our mind, it remains a mystery of what's in a lady's mind to a man and a man's mind to a lady. So I shall enlighten you all with a little findings I've got.

From the males.
The question was - simply describe what attributes or features of a lady that turns you on.

#1. Khy Li

Khy Li says:
Well...
Khy Li says:
Breasts that are shapy
Khy Li says:
loool
Khy Li says:
sharp features
Khy Li says:
nice ass
Khy Li says:
thoug I prefer Asian to Cacausian
Khy Li says:
xD

#2. Vincent Wong

Vince says:
LOLWTF
Vince says:
WELL
Vince says:
LET'S SEE
Vince says:
Hmm
Vince says:
Turning on
Vince says:
I find
Vince says:
Sexy mole turning on
Vince says:
I find
Vince says:
Thin girls but with boobs and ass turning on
Vince says:
Not really that thin actually
Vince says:
The weight has got to be just right
Vince says:
As well as body proportion
Meng Leong says:
love the details, go on (:
Meng Leong says:
haha
Vince says:
ER
Vince says:
Lemme see
Vince says:
Hmm
Vince says:
I find
Vince says:
Roleplaying turning on
Vince says:
Like
Vince says:
Nurse - patient
Vince says:
Or
Vince says:
French maid
Vince says:
That sorta thing
Vince says:
Provided the girl is hot
Vince says:
Any girl who looks like Jessica Alba is turning on *hearts
Vince says:
LET ME TELL YOU ABOUT TURNING OFF
Meng Leong says :
haha OK
Vince says:
Well
Vince says:
I don't like girls putting makeup on
Vince says:
Total turnoff
Vince says:
And also, wearing revealing clothes on a regular basis (Come on girls, don't be discourage to wear those pretty clothes of yours :) )
Vince says:
Like, going to college for example
Vince says:
If you wanna wear revealing clothes, do it on a date/party
Vince says:
That's cool
Vince says:
Certain things, if you provide too much availability, NOT SPECIAL ALREADY RIGHT?
Meng Leong says:
very truee
Vince says:
That's what I'm talking about man
Vince says:
I also find girls with abnormally huge asses a turnoff
Vince says:
It's sick
Vince says:
If jessica alba
Vince says:
Had a black woman's ass
Vince says:
She'd automatically be *thumbs down*

#3. Daniel Tan

taniel dan says:
LMAO
taniel dan says:
Y SO RANDOm
taniel dan says:
FUN , SMART , UNDERSTANDING, OUTSPOKEN, TRUSTWORTHY, CARING, BEAUTIFUL

#4. Kai Fu

kaifu says:
ERRR
kaifu says:
GIRLS WITH
kaifu says:
BIG BOOBS
kaifu says:
SLIM BODY
kaifu says:
WELL GIRLS THAT LOOK LIKE MEGAN FOX
kaifu says:
dota?

#5. Weng Fai

WengFai. says:
blue eyes
WengFai. says:
thick juicy lips
WengFai. says:
hot body

#6. Yoong Ken

ken says:
lol
ken says:
erm
ken says:
should be the legs la (lol long legs to match yours? ;) )
ken says:
ass
ken says:
body la
ken says:
a girl with a nice posture turns me on
ken says:
hair as well

#7. Kit Weng

kit weng says:
she smiles like a smiley
kit weng says:
:D
kit weng says:
haha..
kit weng says:
friendly.. open.. cute
kit weng says:
: ]
Meng Leong says:
awwww
Meng Leong says:
OPEN LA
Meng Leong says:
THATS THE WAY
kit weng says:
haha
kit weng says:
woots..
kit weng says:
yea.. must be open
kit weng says:
all this conservetiveness tak baik
kit weng says:
hehe

#8. Wei Kit

weikit says:
FIRST : the lady must be able to carry a conversation (most important) if not it's you talking all the time, DAMN SIEN
weikit says:
damn hard la. gimme time hahaha
Meng Leong says:
lol EXAM MEH
Meng Leong says:
this is just some casual Q&A session
Meng Leong says:
haha
weikit says:
haha hard laa
weikit says:
must think HARD
weikit says:
cause its about LADIES
weikit says:
she must be smart! or at least not STUPID la
(wtf Wei Kit didn't mention bout bout body features =S )

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From the females.
The question was - simply describe what attributes or features of a man that turns you on.

#1. May Ee (hoho I know you guys wanna know what she's got to say)

..::may may::.. says:
huh?!?!?!
..::may may::.. says:
ermm..
..::may may::.. says:
turns me on?>
..::may may::.. says:
big and long batang?! (THERE ONE HONEST ANSWER!)
..::may may::.. says:
hahahah
..::may may::.. says:
joke..
..::may may::.. says:
but u can write that down...
Meng Leong says:
HAHAHAHA
..::may may::.. says:
that is internationally turning on...
..::may may::.. says:
but for me..
Meng Leong says:
OK!
Meng Leong says:
LOL
..::may may::.. says:
i like a lean body...and a great smile....
..::may may::.. says:
a good sense of humour...
..::may may::.. says:
patience..
..::may may::.. says:
however...
..::may may::.. says:
this does not TURN ME ON...
..::may may::.. says:
these are just features i like on a man...
..::may may::.. says:
features that turn me on...
..::may may::.. says:
are like sexy voice...
..::may may::.. says:
british accent...

#2. Lee Jane

Jane,my blueberry nights says:
intelligence and charm
Jane,my blueberry nights says:
articulate speech
Jane,my blueberry nights says:
but not the con man cahrm
Jane,my blueberry nights says:
intelligen not liek teh smart nerd u knwo..like really can logicically reason and all la..
Jane,my blueberry nights says:
know issues and all..
Jane,my blueberry nights says:
bigger tahn me and can la
Jane,my blueberry nights says:
haha..like can give me a sens eof security
Jane,my blueberry nights says:
AS IN FAT AND TALL LA.NOT THERE BIG LA.AHHAHA (haha Jane, Jane :b)
Meng Leong says:
man, how can i get u to not be so sophisicated with ur answers and spill some deep desires of urs
Jane,my blueberry nights says:
ooh..u wan phisical stuff ah..
Jane,my blueberry nights says:
ahahha
Jane,my blueberry nights says:
aiyoh.of course must be like strong la..takkan i also can wrestles down not nice right?
Jane,my blueberry nights says:
and errr..u know la...no BO (abbreviation for Body Odour)

(Jane needs help.. in her typing if you noticed or probably she was just excited when she types:P)

#3. Chiaw Yee

chiaw yee says:
intelligence i would say
chiaw yee says:
guys with broad shoulders attract me
chiaw yee says:
lol
chiaw yee says:
and erm. guys wearing necklaces.especially the cross.omg XP some can really pull it off but some are major turn off ; D
chiaw yee says:
and a another one, which is damn bloody weird i think, sexy shoulder blades
(I'm surprised you didn't mention bout any Korean thingie of Yunho haha)

#4. Illa

-ichigo*14 [ you know what i want? a eyebrow trimmer...yes, those electric ones! ] says:
for me it would be the eyes
-ichigo*14 [ you know what i want? a eyebrow trimmer...yes, those electric ones! ] says:
urm.. what else..
-ichigo*14 [ you know what i want? a eyebrow trimmer...yes, those electric ones! ] says:
their body XD
-ichigo*14 [ you know what i want? a eyebrow trimmer...yes, those electric ones! ] says:
hahahahahaha
-ichigo*14 [ you know what i want? a eyebrow trimmer...yes, those electric ones! ] says:
and hair too
-ichigo*14 [ you know what i want? a eyebrow trimmer...yes, those electric ones! ] says:
ROFL
-ichigo*14 [ you know what i want? a eyebrow trimmer...yes, those electric ones! ] says:
for me it's the abs man
-ichigo*14 [ you know what i want? a eyebrow trimmer...yes, those electric ones! ] says:
it's all about the abs XD
-ichigo*14 [ you know what i want? a eyebrow trimmer...yes, those electric ones! ] says:
and that line they have on their hips
-ichigo*14 [ you know what i want? a eyebrow trimmer...yes, those electric ones! ] says:
yeah.. wow..
-ichigo*14 [ you know what i want? a eyebrow trimmer...yes, those electric ones! ] says:
*drools*

#5. Alysha

what's eating alysha? says:
HAHAHAHAHA
what's eating alysha? says:
features?
what's eating alysha? says:
hmm.
what's eating alysha? says:
EYES.
what's eating alysha? says:
ABS. but not necessarily. as long as he doesnt have a BELLY.
what's eating alysha? says:
and he must be taller than me of course. (DON'T WORRY BOUT THAT ALYSHA :P)
what's eating alysha? says:
he MUST have manners
what's eating alysha? says:
i HATE people who don't have manners
what's eating alysha? says:
also, he must speak good english.
what's eating alysha? says:
it's okay if he can't write poems and shit (oh nono he got to know how to SHIT, Alysha!)
what's eating alysha? says:
his style
what's eating alysha? says:
i love fashion, so my man also must lahhhh ;)
what's eating alysha? says:
i'm quite particular about the people i date actually. VERY PICKY.
what's eating alysha? says:
OH THIS IS IMPORTANT TOO.
what's eating alysha? says:
his interest for music. or love for it.
what's eating alysha? says:
it would be nice if he could play an instrument or more too!

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There you have it. Now, probably you've got a better idea of what the opposite gender might want. But, everyone has their own point of view on what's hot and what's not.
So what are you waiting for? Impress and make your man/woman crazy over you! Shower some love and grab your chances!

Cheers :).

oh, and.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY LILI :D!